A few months ago I wrote a diary explaining why I supported John Edwards, in that diary, I proffered a small, rarely discussed thought. Politically incorrect as it may be, I suggested that America was too sexist to vote for a woman and too racist to vote for an African American. Now we are approaching the end of our primary season and it is undeniable that we will have an historic nominee, either the first woman or an African American man, both of whom would make a far better President than anyone on the Republican side of the aisle. That is a fact that cannot be ignored. Yet on this very site, MyDD, we have many people who have openly declared that they would rather vote for McCain, or not vote at all, as opposed to voting for the eventual Democratic nominee, if that nominee was not " THIER " choice during the primary season. We've all seen it, we could probably all name those people, but it serves no purpose to do so, just as it serves no purpose to turn against the Democratic party now, because your candidate didn't win the nomination. Rather than tearing our candidates apart limb from limb, we need to begin the discussion of why BOTH these candidates will be great Presidents and why BOTH these candidates are worthy of our support. We need to show America that Democrats, regardless of gender or race, are superior leaders. We cannot do that when we spent every minute of every day attacking our own.
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We all remember Ralph Nader's excoriation that 'there was no difference between Al Gore and George Bush"., can anyone here seriously tell me that they believe that to be true? I'd be happy to debate anyone who can answer in the affirmative. So now, as we approach the end of our season. I wonder if it's possible for people to begin to focus on how we are going to convince America that a woman is capable of leading them, or how an African American could likewise lead our nation. Maybe I am wrong, maybe Americans suddenly pulled the veil off and are no longer the sexist, racist nation in which I grew up. In 66 years, I've seen tremendous change and movement, but my question is, have we arrived? I think we are closer than ever, but I don't think we are there yet. I think we are doing our party, our future and our nation a great disservice by the relentless attacks we hurl at each other on this site. At a time when we should be rejoicing at the prospect of putting one of two, great Democratic candidates in the White House, we are instead trashing them both.
I was invited to a friends home for dinner last night, she had friends visiting from New Hampshire. We watched the debate together before dinner and then spent the better part of the meal discussing our current political situation. We all had different choices on who we voted for and why, but we were unanimous in acknowledging that no one can turn a sure win into a defeat, faster than the Democrats.
The debate last night was ugly, there is no other way to describe it. I could tell you when each candidate was condescending to the other, or was flat out telling lies about the other. What I couldn't tell you is how the performance last night did anything to convince those "other" Americans that an historic candidate would or should be their choice for President.
So what do we, as loyal Democrats do to make our case to America? Apparently we attach each other. This point has been made several times in the last few days, by several people including the moderators, but I am going to put it out there one more time.
Now is the time for us to stop attacking each other with diaries that are full of contempt for our Democratic nominees. If you want to tell us why your candidate should be President, is it too much to ask that you do so without mocking or denigrating the other candidate? You don't come off as being very democratic when the majority of what you write is "anti" the other candidate as opposed to "pro" your candidate. When I hear people mock Hillary for being "shrill", or Barack for being an "empty suit", I can honestly tell you I wonder what has happened to my party. I say my party because it was my party before most of you were born, and damn it I want it back. I want Truman's universal health care. I want JFK's Camelot. I want LBJ's great society. I don't want and don't appreciate the incessant sniping between Democrats that goes on here on this site. We all know there are Republican trolls that come here to stir up shit, and I hope they all get troll rated out of existence, but what about "us"? Why do we feed on each other. Why is it so difficult to understand that BOTH candidates would be great Presidents? If YOU, don't or won't understand that simple fact then please leave, or at the very least stop spewing your propaganda and just pay attention to those who do understand. You might learn something.
Now, before I get attacked by the Obama supporters who will call me a Hilbot, and before I get attacked by the Clinton supporters who will call me an Obamabot,l et me assure both sides I would vote for either candidate in the GE without hesitation. A few months ago I might not have been able to say that, you see I too held the partisan belief that my candidate was the only one who could save our country for the Republican disaster that began with Ronald Reagan and ran pretty much unimpeded ever since.
It looks to me like Obama is going to be our nominee, but what do I know, I supported Edwards, it also looks to me like the Clinton supporters on this site, who also see this trend, are becoming increasingly acerbic in their protestations of Obama. Conversely, the Obama supporters on this site are becoming increasingly dismissive of Clinton. This just does not serve our party. Let this be a plea for civility, because we all need each other, and we would all be better than any republican.
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